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anonymous
writes:Hi, Im in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend, we've been on 4 months ago.. but a month ago we have an argument, i have this jealous attitude towards him i admit i almost became a spy on him even on his social network i spy him and confront him.. and we had a big fight about and said his last piece which i believe i hurt him a lot.. i asked for forgiveness and we became ok but things change since then, he seldom to call me or he never call me at all and he never replied to my msg and text msgs, i asked him whats going on he said he is just busy and he said you love me too much which i dont like it.. what does it mean? he said love me the normal way would be enough and he also said that the thrill in our relationship has gone thru.. it became boring.. even our conversation on the phone he finds it boring.. because before i call him almost 5 times a day.. please advise me and tell me what to do.. i love my man.. and he said he love me the same he just feel being suffocated with the way i treat him.. please what do i need to do..
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2013): Oh my goodness, he doesn't love you the way you love him. In fact I think he really don't love you.if he does, you will never find yourself having problems with him on things like this. You will be busy talking to him.making plans together. Long distance relationship requires constant communication. 5 times call, i think its too much for a person who is not in love with you.But to a person who loves and adores you, its heaven.If he truly loves you, he will be feeling the same way you feel. because its a normal act of a person in love.If he finds it annoying, girl, you gotta stop. His not thinking that your kind a IT. you know what I'm saying? You gotta slow down. maybe look for another who will adore you. No matter how many good times you had with this person, but its all in the past.The future looks so blurry between you and him. if you will continue with it, you will just end up hurting yourself so BAD. So bad that it will break you and it will affect your everything.I don't want that to happen to you, so get up and get over it. Good Luck and God Bless!
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reader, shmily_girl01 +, writes (26 May 2013):
 You have trust issues and have no confidence. You become needy and clingy. These are some of the behaviors men are turn off.
Your world is around him and you forget about your own. But when you try to do something where you are passionate about for yourself that will create a balance between him and you.
Change your attitude on the way you think and stop the extreme jealousy as this is not healthy. If he needs space, give him that space he needs and let him know you love him and you are sorry for what you did.
Space is what he needs right now and when he is ready he will come to you. Do not be pushy and do not barrage him with text messages or calls or emails this will irritate him more. Give him time to think.
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