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writes:So here it goes. I have a male friend he split up from his girlfriend a year ago and is still looking for someone. Recently he spoke to one of his other female friends and asked to have a Fwb relationship.She agreed but ended up getting back with her boyfriend so this didnt work out.Now for the last couple of months me and this guy have got closer he has made hints at liking me, e.g telling me he wants to get a massage from a hot woman then later asking me to learn to do it. He also comes across hot and cold one minute he's very close and affectionate and other times he backs off. This however could be that due to the fact I have a boyfriend, they are both friends and both have very free conversations about the sex life including threesomes, since learning that me and my boyfriend are up for that he seems to one minute go out of his way to invite us round when he has a free house then the next minute distances himself?Could this be that he is unsure whether we would do anything with him? Also who should make the first move here? And how do you go about it?Me an my boyfriend have been together now for 5 years we have a steady relationship and have discussed threesomes on and off for almost two years making sure it's what we want and it is, just added this as I know a lot of people say don't do it without thinking.Thanks in advance for any answers
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2013): Let me remind you of one thing and be completely clear here. If a man truly loves you he would not want to share your body with another man. I would never do such a thing because what is the point? If I want multiple partners I would go to those swinger clubs. I know my boyfriend would not want to watch me doing with another man. Your business. Good luck...
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reader, Got Issues +, writes (27 May 2013):
 If you're both into that kind of thing and don't think it's going to jeopardise either relationship then it's not for any of us to judge. If he's an open-minded kind of guy and you're all comfortable talking about sex then why doesn't your boyfriend broach the subject with him just to test the water and see if he might be up for it. If he says no then at least you know and if he says yes then by all means go ahead, but be prepared for things to get awkward afterwards. I don't personally know anyone whose relationship has survived a threesome but that could be because I only know two people who admit to having had one. I guess if you're prepared to lose everything then you should try something you're curious about. Hope out works out for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi I thank you for your response but I specifically said this quest isn't about whether or not I would have a threesome I have already made my deduction on that, this is just a question of whether or not people think my friend is interested and who make the first move.
Thanks again for you response
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reader, Adeboyefa  +, writes (26 May 2013):
 A man who really loves you will not be willing to share your body with another. Think twice. Are you ready to sleep with two men and then watch them sleep together? If you get pregnant,who shoulders the responsibility?
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