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30-35,
*ady in Love
writes:dear cupids, i have the most amazing boyfriend ever who takes every thing in his life seriously , his work , the scout and for sure me, but when it comes to telling me about it, he simply never does, even when his work involve issues that are related to me, if i don't ask he does not bother to tell even though i always encourage him to tell me at least the major things going on in his day, knowing that he asks me to tell him every detail and i do!we are going to be engaged soon and we do sex as much as possible when his parents are out of home.today they were and i was supposed to meet him at 11 am after his scout thing ends.at 11:30 he haven't called yet, so i assumed he is out of units and i went near his house and called him, he said he is still at the scout thing and in 2 minutes he will come to his home to check if his parents are gone.after 20 minutes of waiting i called again , he said his parents are home.i began crying and asked him to come pick me up through message, he said he is at the scout place again, and since i am in the scout also , he was implying that i should follow him their.i waited 30 minutes so i would top crying to go back home but i could not, so i sent him a message saying please come after me now, and he did, making me wait another 30 minutes for his arrival.when he came and i cried and told him how much does it hurt me to be neglected in this way and to suffer of being left alone in the streets for hours because he can not simply inform me what is going on with him before i ask!! all what he could answer was that it is my fault because i went out of home before he told me to do so.i got crazy and said nothing i we kept total silence until i was home and he did not even apologize!it has passed over 10 hours now and he has not called me oncei think that it is not my mistake, and i did nothing wrong, and i think he should be the one paying much more attention to me specially that it was a sex date!!am i thinking right?should i call him or something?what should i do?by the way i am still very angry of what he did , but it is very rare that we keep apart more than 12 hours.i always say text him good night before i sleep, should i do it tonight?thank you for all your help
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (6 June 2013):
love is not easy but please be gentle with yourself take it easy.Its not going to be easy to do but would you consider letting him be the one to text you first and try and not be so anxious.Real love will not go away. Kind Wishes Nora B.
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reader, NORA B +, writes (6 June 2013):
love is not easy but please be gentle with yourself take it easy.Its not going to be easy to do but would you consider letting him be the one to text you first and try and not be so anxious.Real love will not go away. Kind Wishes Nora B.
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