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female
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36-40,
*on't get it
writes:I recently noticed on the history of my phone was a porn site so clearly its my husband I've checked his history and it was the same site. I don't watch porn but don't mind him watching so said nothing. our sex life is really good to him to and is very frequent so now I don't understand why he's looking on sites for single women in our area on chat lines. Just to mention we get on great have good sex both have our own social lifes and i am so faithful i just dont get it i feel really hurt. What am i doing wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2013): You're probably doing nothing wrong. Neither is he.
When I was your age, my wife demanded more sex than I could provide. Porn helped me increase my sex drive. So she was happy and I was happy too. She eventually started watching porn too.
Now she is almost 40 and sometimes I demand more than she can give. Do you know what she told me? "give me 30 minutes beforehand, give me a laptop and shut the bedroom door!". After 30 minutes of watching porn, she will be ready to go.
We don't watch porn together since we have different tastes. But we both know that we both watch it and there is nothing wrong with that.
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reader, mammer69  +, writes (15 May 2013):
First if it just "porn sites" then i wouldn't worry. Me and my fiance both watch born and we do it because we like it and because you can actually learn a lot from it and get ideas.If its a chat site then it is possible that he could be using it just to meet people to have friends.He could also be looking for a third person to join the bedroom with you two.The worst possible thing is he could be looking for some one else or cheating. The best thing to do is to very gently talk to him about it.
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reader, Pr3tty_in_pink86 +, writes (15 May 2013):
I am going to tell you this, someone will have to tell me if they think this is right for on a phone because I know it's right for on the PC. When you visit sites there is adware software this gives you popups and adverts on the internet depending on which sites you go on. When looking at porn the adware assumes the person is a single man and you end up gettingh tonnes of pop-ups saying "find women in your area" "get an asian girlfriend now".
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