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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've told this girl that I like her and i think she likes me as well because she didn't say that she did or didnt when I told her but we get along really well shes always smiling at me when we see each other and we talk for hours. we have alot in common and understand each other. she always comes over and talks to me shes a little shy where her friends are around and my friends are around but she also messes with my hair when she has to go. When we were both at this party she dragged me down the stairs twice by my legs whilst we both were laughing and everytime she caught me looking at her i smiled and she smiled wider than she normally does and she hugs me tighter than others do.She knows i like her and my best friend is her twin brother he also knows and he makes jokes to me and is genuinely fine about it because he wants me and his sister to be happy. the thing that has got me wondering more is that the other day she said that she likes the fact that people think shes innocent because sh is a nice smart girl who looks innocent but she said she isn't "innocent" (written with quotations) which i'm taking to think shes told me shes had sex before.What I want to know is does she like me and how should I act around her cause i don't want to be like i'm trying to force her to like me cause i'm not i dont want to sound needy or anything.thanks.also we haven't spoke about me liking her since i told her we've just had general talks
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2013): You seem to be hitting it off pretty well. Ask her brother what she thinks about you and if he thinks she would like to date you.
You already told her you like her, so ask her to go to the cinema and take her out to eat. Hang out with just her and her brother; or if her brother has a girlfriend, double date.
That way you get to hangout with your best friend; and it gives you an excuse to actually be with her. If things get awkward, he will be there to steady things a bit.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (11 May 2013):
You don’t tell us what she said when you told her you liked her. Did you drop hints that you hope she picked up, or did you tell her straight that you liked her? If the former, be explicit about it and tell her how you feel. IF the latter, and she didn’t say anything, it suggests that she may not think of you in that way. The fact is that as you’ve revealed your feelings, the ball is in her court now if anything’s going to change. You obviously get on very well together so don’t try and act like anything other than yourself. You can’t make her like you, you can just enjoy her company and I would suggest not getting your hopes up waiting for her to change her mind because there’s no way to be sure she will.
I wish you all the very best.
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