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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (6 March 2013):
 Hmmmm... what to do....
you like this guy very much so you will possibly look the other way for all the signs that he's LDR with this girl 4 hours away...
you need to figure out if he's LDR with her and if he is RUN... because he's LYING to you about her (a "friend" is not a girlfriend but a 4 hour trip to visit a female friend seems a bit much to me unless they are more than friends)
if he's lying to YOU about her then he will never tell her about you because he's playing both ends.
LDR does not mean a girl in every town...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlright. So what do I do?
He already said he finds it rude that I do t speak to him( he'd ask me a question.. Getting to know me) & I'd get so shy I would t answer him.:( I like him so much I get really shy & I hate it.
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 March 2013):
he drove 4 hours to see a female friend...
I'm betting he's LDR with her...
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHis female friend I meant.
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 March 2013):
My only concerns with the gym guy are
a. it's his job to make the members of the gym feel good at the gym... so that may be his angle with you
b. he's driving 4 hours to visit a male friend. Are you sure he's not gay?
When he gets back, take the bull by the horns and ask him for coffee or something...
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female
reader, janniepeg  +, writes (5 March 2013):
 Nothing happend because he had thought you had a boyfriend. You both misinterpreted your shyness and quietness as having no interest. You might see some changes after he gets back. Nothing is wrong with you. When you are infatuated you get mood swings. You singled out one person so other guys will just have to wait.
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