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So many guys want to date me but I just want the guy at the gym!

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Question - (4 March 2013) 6 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

What is wrong with me? I feel so depressed:(?

So I've been single for 2 years and I joined the gym and this guy that works there would always look at me and would look away when I look at him.

I finally started getting to know him and he'd flirt with me and ask me lots of questions trying to know me but cause I like him so much I'd get really shy and quiet and now he doesn't look at me or try's to know me anymore.

He's really quiet and friendly and so cute I didn't think he'd be into me. He told me he will be traveling to see his male friend over the weekend. (I know is 4hour trip)

So have I missed out on that one? 'Sigh'

He thought I spent valentines day with my bf and he was shocked when I said I don't have a bf. so many guys wants to date me but I'm not interested I just want the gym guy:(

What is wrong with me?

I'm upset. No horrible comments please.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (6 March 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntHmmmm... what to do....

you like this guy very much so you will possibly look the other way for all the signs that he's LDR with this girl 4 hours away...

you need to figure out if he's LDR with her and if he is RUN... because he's LYING to you about her (a "friend" is not a girlfriend but a 4 hour trip to visit a female friend seems a bit much to me unless they are more than friends)

if he's lying to YOU about her then he will never tell her about you because he's playing both ends.

LDR does not mean a girl in every town...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2013):

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Alright. So what do I do?

He already said he finds it rude that I do t speak to him( he'd ask me a question.. Getting to know me) & I'd get so shy I would t answer him.:( I like him so much I get really shy & I hate it.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (5 March 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony aunthe drove 4 hours to see a female friend...

I'm betting he's LDR with her...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2013):

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His female friend I meant.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (5 March 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntMy only concerns with the gym guy are

a. it's his job to make the members of the gym feel good at the gym... so that may be his angle with you

b. he's driving 4 hours to visit a male friend. Are you sure he's not gay?

When he gets back, take the bull by the horns and ask him for coffee or something...

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (5 March 2013):

janniepeg agony auntNothing happend because he had thought you had a boyfriend. You both misinterpreted your shyness and quietness as having no interest. You might see some changes after he gets back. Nothing is wrong with you. When you are infatuated you get mood swings. You singled out one person so other guys will just have to wait.

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