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anonymous
writes:hii'm 21 yrs old guy who never had sex or even kissed a girl, this happen mostly because i'm so insecure with my size down there, i've been reading a lot about this topic and i saw a lot of advices like 'it's how you use it"; "size does not matter" etc... but this hasn't help me to get over of my insecurities, so i would like to here here by guys about their size, or even girls how knows the size of their partner's manhood, you can reman anonymous with your replies, by the way my size is 4.9 inch and i don;r think i will grow anymore, i want ho hear from other people just to see real situation of myseft.. thank you guys.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (5 March 2013):
So, in order to avoid the possibility of rejection, you're going to reject yourself? Does that make sense?
Look, there are girls who demand a big one. That's something that regular sized men have to accept. The reality is that those women often have ways of figuring this out before hand. Like straight up asking you, or saying, "is it true what they say about guys with big/little hands/feet?"
If you're not enough for someone they aren't going to tell you. My ex roommate stopped seeing a guy with a small penis (smaller than you) mostly because of his confidence issues. But she broke up with him with a lot of compassion because she really felt bad for the guy. She didn't want to add to his self esteem issues, so she never mentioned his penis when she broke up.
Yours is a very common size, one that most girls have seen more often than not. You can always date a less experienced girl, that could help.
AND STOP WATCHING PORN!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2013): Quit worrying about the size of your penis. If you date a girl and you two connect and fall for each other then she'll be okay with any size penis as long as it can get the job done, and 4.9 can get the job done.
Being insecure will only hurt you.
When I was dating my now husband he was incredibly insecure about his, which was silly because it's big enough for me (it's like 5 inches so it's about the same).
Fact is, if his was any longer I couldn't enjoy sex (guess I have short vagina - and yes he has hit my cervix before during sex x_x ).
So there you go. A real life example and what a woman thought :)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (4 March 2013):
 A vagina is smaller than you think. If you always believe that a woman only feels something with a bigger penis, than all tampon users would not be able to keep them in, and they will all fall out of our vaginas. Do you know how small a tampon is? Somehow I had never been able to fit one in because it hurts.
If I was ignorant about reports and statistics on penis size and I looked at you, I would think you are pretty much average. That 5 to 7 inches standard is really destroying a lot of men's confidence.
I am always in awe of how many men measure their penises, but women never measure their vaginas and their tightness, elasticity. We don't have that obsession. I think if you are two healthy individuals, that's all matters. A woman can definitely enjoy sex with your size.
If a girl disses you because of your size, she is shallow and not worth your time.
You are insecure because you are dealing with the unknown. The older you get the worse you feel about not venturing and overcoming your fears.
Compatability is very important. The penis and vagina can be like a key to the right hole. Your shape has to match. A big penis can look good, but if it doesn't hit the right spots, what good can it be?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2013): your size is just within the medium size range. not small. you can not tell if girls refuse your size unless you make friends with them.so be positive and go out with girls and let them decide if you are too small or not.anyway in my opinion girls fall for the successful guys not for guys with big guns.
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