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writes:This question was kinda inspired by my friend. She was telling me how this chick she saw was so attractive she would turn lesbian for her, and she is currently in a hetero relationship so obviously she didn't turn lol :)What I was wondering for lesbians and gays, is there one person you would consider turning straight for, even if only for one date? I don't mean this question offensively if it's coming across that way. I was just wondering because of what she said.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 March 2013):
 I had a boyfriend once who met a good friend of mine, and then afterwards told me he'd turn gay for him.
Although, I'm thinking your friend said this more of a joke, and not sincerely. But one date I'm sure she'd turn "gay" or "straight" to have, as a date doesn't include sex or kissing/touching. I think that's the point where it's truly revealed what sexual orientation people have.
But my then boyfriend.. I'm pretty sure he meant it, because that time with my friend was a guy-to-guy date. My boyfriend ended up completely ignoring me because he was so taken with my friend, and I was the third wheel pretty much. But my then boyfriend also ended up kissing my own brother at a party later on, so I'm thinking he probably wasn't all straight to begin with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone. This was just a question of curiosity and it's nice to hear everyone's opinion.
dirtball: you're not the first guy I heard say that about Johnny Depp lol :) Thanks for your input.
Karlos5021: I agree with you, and I guess I just wanted to hear other's people take on it.
llifton: Thank you for your reply and your insight. It honestly answered my question. I understand where you come from completely just from the opposite side of the spectrum.
Thank you everyone :)
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reader, llifton +, writes (5 March 2013):
 nope. lol. i'm gay through and through.
i definitely find men attractive and can recognize a nice looking guy. but would i date him or sleep with him? not a chance. i'm secure in my sexuality, lmao. and men don't do it for me like women do. i've never met a man that could turn me straight. hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2013): Well I think your friend was probably just joking around when she said that. I see and hear females say that sort of thing often enough just in lighthearted humour. For a gay person to consider pretending he/she is straight in a realistic situation I think would be not so nice and misleading, especially if the "date" happens to be genuinely into them, then only to find out he/she was just an experiment or a dare for the other person. Unless a person is bisexual, I don't think they can just switch sexual agendas as and when they please, in my opinion.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (5 March 2013):
 One of my best friends in college was a lesbian. I remember having a conversation with her one day that took a decidedly sexual turn. First some joking but then she said something to me that surprised me. She told me that if she ever did decide she wanted to be with a man, she wanted it to be me. I was flattered, and curious, so I asked why. She told me it was because she trusted me, she knew I was a nice guy, and that I wouldn't hurt her or do anything she didn't want to. Nothing ever did happen with her, but I share this story because I think it speaks to the point of your question. I had never even considered it, but she had.
So yes, I think that it's possible, if not probable. Hell, I know a few guys I'd consider "going gay" for. Ahhhh Johnny Depp... *blush*
I believe that people get too wrapped up the the homo/hetero/bi-sexual labels. To me, people are simply sexual. If you find someone attractive sexually, you just do. It doesn't matter the gender. Many people just have a resounding preference one way or the other.
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