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I care for him a lot but I think he still has feelings for his ex

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Question - (24 July 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, *enise054 writes:

Hi, me and this guy have been talking for a while now, and we both now have feelings for each other and care about each other a lot (we aren't dating though).

The reason I'm very scared about getting into a relationship with him is because of his ex. He was in a 2 year relationship with her and I know he was totally in love with her, they broke up about 7 months ago because she cheated on him.

He has called me by her name by mistake about 3 times now.

Last night me and him were talking and he was ignoring me and talking/laughing with someone online, he told me he was talking with his ex. Even though I was happy that he was honest about it, I was really upset he was totally ignoring me to talk with her.

I feel like he will always love this girl and that I will never be as good for him as she was. I think he still has feelings for her. I don't think it would be smart to get into a relationship with him right now.

Does he still have feelings for her?

How do you all feel about this? What are your opinions? Please help, thank you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2013):

If he is still in love with his ex then do not get into a relationship with him, you will get hurt. You will only be feeling insecure in a relationship with him and you will only get hurt, its not worth it.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (24 July 2013):

olderthandirt agony auntParagraph 5 answers your question for you. If you're sure he will always love her then it's foolish to get involved and get hurt.

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