A
female
age
30-35,
*opfanxx34
writes:This girl keeps flirting and talking about sexual things with my boyfriend and I honestly can't handle it anymore. I guess he just sees her as being friendly/funny but it really hurts me that she keeps doing it. I'm honestly scared that he'll become more interested in her than me because I'm not really that sexual with my boyfriend.What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2013): If you are dating a "boy" between 18-21; he is going to appreciate flirting from a pretty girl. You can't stop flirting.
You may as well try to run into a hurricane. He can no more stop girls from flirting than you can stop boys from looking at your butt, when you're wearing skinny jeans.
Be realistic. You're both at that age when it's basically a free for all when it comes to dating.
You have to tell your boyfriend that his flirting openly with a girl in your presence, is disrespectful. It's treating you like your feelings don't matter. You will not stand for it.
Flirting is harmless, and it's going to come your way too.
Just accept it gracious and brush it off.
It's going to be hard to find a boy that other girls will not flirt with; unless he is an ugly, hump-backed geek, with buck-teeth. It might also help if he is blind, so he can't see other girls.
Just tell him to stop flirting in front of you. Cut it out or you will find a more respectful boy to hangout with.
If it continues, dump him and find someone else. Boys his age might not take you seriously; unless you back up what you say.
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