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writes:Why does my friend behave this way? Should I reply back to her?So my friend went on holiday and I asked her to get me some make up from there. Is cheaper where she went.I was on the phone to her the day before she left and was texting when she was at the airport and texted me when she got there,I asked her if she wanted me to send her money for the makeup or she will buy it for me then I pay her when she gets back.She didn't reply till 4 days later and said she will let me know.I didn't hear from her. The girl she went with told me they got back 2weeks ago.I asked my friend how her holiday went and she went on to b'tch about the girl she went with and said she's a slut blah blah.. and said she has so much to tell me about her and totally forgot to mention my makeup.I've not replied back to her. Should I even bother speaking to her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2013): I remember reading this post before. Gosh I hope the makeup is 80% off otherwise really? Even if the makeup is free, if she forgot she forgot. If u weren't so cheap u could afford ur own makeup where u r or book ur flight to go on holiday to go cheap makeup shopping. U are not a good friend. U are cheap and petty. You don't even care about how her holiday went. It's not like u sent her the money n she's avoiding u. So grow the f up n stop crying over makeup. The other aunts may hold ur hand but this is truth. Move on, when u can afford to actually buy makeup, u should until then save ur money bc u can't afford it if u looking for a bargain and willing to throw out a friendship bc u asked her n she forgot or had better things to do like enjoy her holiday. Smh
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2013): You have posted about this before, and I have to say I don't understand why this make up is such a big deal to you. You only seem to be bothered about speaking to your friend because you want to see if she got it for you, not because you have any desire to speak to her or find out how her holiday actually was.
You know that your friend was on holiday right? Not on a shopping trip for you. If she didn't manage to get you the make up then what's the big deal? You asked her for a favour, it doesn't mean she is obliged to go out if her way to do it for you.
Is this really such a huge deal to you that it's worth losing a friend over? If so you don't sound like you have much of a friendship anyway. Just pay the extra couple of bucks, buy the make up yourself and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2013):
Hey sweetie you posted regarding this before. Now people go on Holiday for the purpose of a holiday and all that it entails . Not running errands . I don't think it's important whether she brought it back, certainly a bit disappointing but not end of world.. Not talking to her is just being petty especially if it just over the makeup.
Now I do think you have a valid reason for being unhappy about her lack of contact.. You are not a toy to be picked up at her leisure .. So if I were you I would say something if I wanted to continue the friendship or just say that I felt the friendship had ran its course if you feel there is nothing to retrieve ..
Take care c
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reader, llifton  +, writes (24 July 2013):
 Sorry, meant to say I'm sure she got busy and had other things to do* not got off coupon. Darn phone.
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reader, llifton +, writes (24 July 2013):
why wouldn't you speak to her?I'm pretty sure that's normal for friends. My friends and I go days or weeks without speaking all the time. Doesn't mean that we aren't friends anymore. It just means that we are busy or have things going on. After all she was on vacation right?I'm sure she got off coupon and had other things to do. And if she forgot your makeup that stuff just kinda happens sometimes. I would let it go. But that's just me.
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