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anonymous
writes:Hello, I sent this guy a friend request on Facebook and he accepted me. A day after he accepted me he liked my photo and he messaged me saying that he wanted to say hello cause I am beautiful. We chatted for a little bit and he said he had to go out with his friends he offered me his number and said I can call him whenever I can. He told me it was nice talking with each other. After two days I texted him and he was so sweet on the text. I asked him if I can call him the same day we were texting and he said please. I called him and we talked for almost and hour and half. and I told him I had to go. he was so sweet on the phone and I really like him. He talk to me about his family and I did the same thing. he said he will call next time and we said goodnight. I want to know if he likes me or not? Why did he sent me a message the first day? I want to tell him I liked him but I am nervous. do u think he likes me or he just want to meet me as a person? I want to call him again but its only been one day since I talk to him. please help me what should I do? Thank You
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2013): If I were you, I would not go rushing into this. Let the guy show his feelings to you a little, let him call or text you a few times so that you feel confident in the way you feel.
Just take it slowly, this way you can get to know him a lot better and truly know how strong your feelings are for him. At the moment it's all new and exciting, so make sure you don't rush into it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2013): I would just tell him its obvious he likes you or else he wouldn't make the effort to talk to you what have you got to lose
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2013): Go very slowly...He is a stranger whom you randomly picked? Does he like you? it's still too early to tell. Of course if a beautiful girl sent him a message, was happy to phone him and stay on the line that long, he was keen - now let's see if his actions follow his words: give him the opportunity to call you next. That will show you more and more if he is interested or not.He replied to your message because you chose him, and he had nothing to lose.It's too early for you to tell him you like him - it's infatuation, excitement of meeting someone new, a crush from seeing his picture, talking to him, etc. Give it some time, take it slow, get to know him properly and in time, you can share your feelings. Move too fast and he has no thrill of the chase, or worse, will think you are very easy!Keep up the contact, don't be too eager yet - give him time to also show interest, and go with the flow. There is nothing wrong with being excited, but don't move too fast with someone you don't know.Be safe.
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