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writes:Hi I am really confused and need help deciding. I broke up with my bf. I had everything a girl could want but im scared of getting close to someone. Trust issues.-. But Im ready now and want to get back together. So foes he. But he's in a boys home and that means i can't talk to him or see him until who knows when! He said when he gets out he wants to be together. Should i wait or move on? I can't wait forever... Help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2013): I think you should get counselling, and grow up, before you continue a relationship with this guy, or anyone else:You broke up with your boyfriend when you had "everything a girl could want" because you're scared of getting close...Then you say "you're ready now" and in the next line, because he is in a boy's home and you can't be in touch for a while, you doubt you can wait forever?If you knew what you really wanted, you WOULD wait forever if he was the right guy, and you had "everything a girl could wan't". Whatever his issues are for being there, he is hopefully working through them and getting help, and hoping to be with you again. You however, will not help him getting stable, because you change your mind, heart and feelings due to your trust issues.So go work on yourself, grow up, and if he is available and still interested, then and only then reconnect with this guy. If you can't wait, you will merely meet someone else and hurt them too by not being ready, having trust issues, etc. and the vicious cycle continues... get the message?
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (24 July 2013):
 If he is in a boy's home how old is he?
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