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writes:So I met this guy on Facebook and he really seemed nice, I really wanted to talk to him and the only way was on Facebook because I don't know him personally. I was really nervous about all this so I asked my best friend for advice and she told me to say and I quote "hey, do I know you? 'Cause you seem kind of familiar". I thought it was really unoriginal, but, as stupid as it may sound, that's what I sent him because I didn't know what to say. He answered and he said that he didn't think he knew me. I wanted to say something else but I was 'speechless'. I didn't want so sound like a stalker and tell him ' yeah, I think I saw you there' so I said "oh, ok then :D" (I really want to hit my head against the wall right now) and when he answered he said "lol k" and that means he wanted me to let him alone because for me 'k = go away'. I really want to talk to him. I really like him very much. I regret doing what my friend said. What can I do to talk to him against without it being awkward?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do have a friend that knows him in real life.
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reader, human_male  +, writes (19 February 2013):
 Just contact him and say hi, you enjoyed talking to him and you would like to get to know him better.
If he asks you why you said do I know you you'll just have to say you thought he was someone else for a minute. Lame but I don't know what other excuse would work. This is a really good example why NOT to play games and simply be honest.
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reader, Cultuz  +, writes (19 February 2013):
Hey. If I find a woman who talks to me on Facebook interesting, I usually reply openly and will do my part to keep the conversation going, regardless of her own lack of input. It's way too early to judge in the matter though. I suggest you find something witty to talk about. Something ever-so-slightly relevant at least. A picture he has, a status he posts. Use it as your icebreaker and see if you can keep a conversation rolling from that. If he is not interested, you should feel it on his replies. Short, cold and uninteresting replies usually indicate a lack of interest.
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