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writes:Hello I recently found a group on fb called [name removed by mod]. I thought it would be a bit of fun and added a girl I thought I liked the look of from the page. Without prompting she started telling me all kinds of sexual things and was asking for photos of me... my diplay pic had my face and she asked to see body so I changed it to one of my body. She said I was hot blah blah... and was telling me how turned on she was.Anyway I ended up sending her a couple of pics of my penis to her... then 'she' said that this was her boyfriend and he would be posting my pictures on the internet. Clearly I was stupid and something I thought would be harmless fun amoung like minded people has gone horribly wrong... I'm not a bad guy just put my urges before my brain, I'm now sick with worry as they may have copied my face picture and posted them with my penis ones and I don't know what to do... any advice???
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (11 February 2013):
 what's done is done...
even if they post your face pictures with your penis pictures they are not the same picture and it's supposition on anyone's part if it's really you...
and if someone says something at least then you know where to go to get them removed.
NEVER take pictures you would not show mom.... new rule huh?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2013): What can you do? Never do it again.
It's not harmless fun...are you living under a rock? It's never smart to send naked pics of yourself to anyone, especially a stranger you "met" on the internet or a social media...dude, that person could have been anyone...maybe is was the boyfriend, or maybe it was a guy all along...
At this point, learn from this... and actually, it's good you shared your story...maybe others will read it and not make the same mistake because they saw a real consequence.
I'm sorry it happened and hopefully it will blow over and the person will get bored and move on...
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reader, Serpico +, writes (11 February 2013):
Read what iAmHere wrote below. If it doesnt sink in, read it again until it does....
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reader, DV1 +, writes (10 February 2013):
 If you figure out where he's posting them, you can contact the site, and they're required to give you the poster's info, because you can't post without someone's consent...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2013): "I'm now sick with worry as they may have copied my face picture and posted them with my penis ones and I don't know what to do... any advice???"Nothing you can do, and to add to your discomfort I must throw out the possibility that this "girl" was actually a gay guy posing as a girl trolling gullible straight guys into sending them dick pics for the expressed purpose of posting them online. It happens.Only advice I can offer is accept that you've done something really really stupid (but ultimately harmless and only embarrassing to you, no non-consenting adults or minors or animals involved), and if you are busted then be prepared to lie (you can claim your face was photoshopped onto a dick pic like many bogus celebrity "nudes" are) or just try to laugh it off. Perhaps you could change your appearance so your dick won't be recognizable as the one in the pics: get circumcised if you aren't already, or maybe consider a foreskin transplant if you are no longer so equipped. Very simple advice, unfortunately too late for you but offered as a caution to DC readers: if you don't want the world to see your dick, then don't post pictures of it on the Internet. Once it's out there, it's out there and it's out of your control. But the good news is that every guy has one so in the end yours is nothing special, and any awkwardness should quickly be forgotten as soon as someone else you know does something even more stupid and embarrassing, which shouldn't take long.
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