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writes:I'm a bit confused here, there's this girl whom I've known for a long time, we've both been in and out of relationships. Now I've been interested in her for a while, but up till last night I believed she didn't have any interest in me. I mean she was hitting on other guys every single time we went out with friends, up to a point it was annoying me very much.The thing is I never make a move if I'm not sure there's anything there, so I decided to move on. There was this group of tourists last night, a bunch of girls. And one of those girls seemed to like me, a lot. Suddenly the girl I mentioned above left with her friend, to go someplace else. When they came back it was to say they were going home. By then I found out that the girl from the tourist group was in a relationship, apparently she has no problem cheating on her boyfriend. But I didn't feel like making out with a girl who's in a relationship, I mean I imagine myself in that guys place... well I for one would want to trust my girlfriend... moving on... I wanted to go home too and offered a ride, she asked if I didn't want to stay and make out with that tourist girl ( but in a really jealous tone, if you know what I mean ) I did not expect that. Is she trying to get me to make a move or what? If she is, to me she is sending all the wrong signals.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (5 August 2013):
Hi there. She must have feelings for you, otherwise she wouldn't have said what she did in a jealous tone of voice.
You might just have to ask her quietly, what that was all about.
Maybe you could simply ask her out for a coffee, and that would be a perfect opportunity to ask her about it directly.
And go from there.
People don't usually get jealous, unless they have feelings for that other person.
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