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anonymous
writes:I had really bad muscle soreness after my first day back at the gym doing a legs session! My boyfriend thought my inability to move - sit on toilet - get dressed was hilarious (he knows the pain of DOMs!!). Anyway, I was trying to stretch out my legs and breathing rapidly with the soreness and being particularly dramatic I told him that I imagined it to be worse than the pain of giving birth! To which he replied: I'll remind you of that when u give birth! I got a surprise because I know he likes kids and tells me he wants two someday. But it's the first time he's directly related it to me. He also mentioned a few days later if we have kids they'll be really freckled as we both are. Clearly this isn't a serious problem at all but I wonder does it mean he wants to do this with me? We've been together a year now and have talked about the future in circles and roundabouts which is fine. But I am a girl afraid of the unknown and while I realise that I can never be certain about the future, I do tend to read into things a bit much! I won't be pressuring him or anything I'd just like to get your take on it :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2013): personally i dont think you should read too much into it or get too scared about the comments he made. I think the comments are nice and you should take them as you two having children together could be a possibility but its not a definite. Its nice that your boyfriend of a year can envisage a future with you but i also think you need to realise that this doesnt necessarily mean hes guna be proposing or expecting children any time soon. If you really like him i think him saying such things is definitely a positive and nothing for you to panic about :-)
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