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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi all, I'm feeling really confused now and advice would really mean a lot to me. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year but I might be falling for someone else. Let's call him B. B knows that I'm attached. But we text all the time, to the point of good morning and good night. We started off with texting about school stuff and somehow it drifted off to other topics. I really enjoy his company. On top of that, we often go out for meals, and he's even brought me to meet his friends and colleagues. He also always sends me home and lately he has become more physical, sometimes just putting his arms around my shoulder or waist. I'm really confused over how I feel towards him, but I would be lying if I said I didn't have feelings for him. This feeling really sucks because I have a wonderful bf who cares for me, but is often busy with studies. And suddenly B appears in my life. I'm not sure how he feels towards me, but I do not want to jeopardise this friendship. Should I stop going out with B?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (26 August 2013):
 Either stop seeing B or break up with the boyfriend.
you now have to decide which man is more important to you.
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reader, MSA +, writes (26 August 2013):
 There will be many guys you will cross paths with that will be better looking, have a better bond, etc than your boyfriend or husband to be. The true question and test is, are you going to leave each of your boyfriends or husband for the next 'better' guy that comes along? Being committed and staying faithful to your boyfriend is a choice you make. If you are serious about him and your relationship, then you will make the right choice. I'm not saying it's not OK to have male friends, but you will always keep in mind that they are just close friends, that your boyfriend is YOUR CHOICE, the one you want to be with. Best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2013): yes you should, its simple. its not fair to your boyfriend who in your words he is wonderful and cares about you. stop going out with b or come clean to your boyfriend and break up with him.
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