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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I don't know how exactly to describe the problem my boyfriend and I have. Or probably it's just me?We've been together for 2 and a half months and while sometimes things are going great, there are times when it's all a freakin' mess.I'm very self-conscious and constantly thinking that he doesn't love me as much as I love him. He's the type that's not very showy of his feelings, although he can be very sweet, just not at all times. However, some aspects of his personality are very immature. When he's grumpy or acting mean, he never says what's wrong and when I ask, he just says "nothing, I'm fine". Just like a woman. A few days ago we were discussing our previous crushes and he talked about a girl he liked before and described how in love he was with her and how he couldn't stop thinking about it for the next 2 years.I constantly assumed he doesn't like me as much as he likes her and got angry and sad. But didn't say a thing. When I get angry, he likes paying it back the next day. And again, says he's not grumpy and there's nothing wrong.Probably my past relationship affected me because then I felt so adored (more than I loved him) and that's why I somehow decided that in each relationship one part loves the other one more. And being that self-conscious, I immediately decided this time it's me.I just can't understand him. Sometimes he's so loving and sweet and the next day he's cold and distant. Some days I want to cry because I can't understand him and some other days I'm just walking on clouds. Is this normal? Is it me? Probably I take everything too seriously.
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