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I just found out that the boy I like is asexual. Is it still possible for him to return my feelings?

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Question - (12 September 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok, so hi everyone. I just found out that the boy I like is asexual today. Is it still possible for him to return my feelings? Honestly, his asexuality doesn't really matter to me at all. It will be a new thing if anything, since he lacks interest in sex which contrasts him from every other guy I've dated(which is SO not many)

So, yeah. Despite that, should I keep the faith and just see what happens(which I'd really like to do instead of giving up so quickly)? Or is the mere fact that he is asexual a red flag that leaves no lee way and I should just step off?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2012):

I am an asexual with hetero-romantic feelings. But many don't have romantic feelings either. You need to ask him directly.

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A female reader, shrodingerscat United States +, writes (12 September 2012):

shrodingerscat agony auntNot every asexual person is alike. Some are interested in platonic romance, some aren't. You need to talk to him to make sure, because there's really no way we can tell you what he's interested in.

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A male reader, Xearo Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (12 September 2012):

It depends and you would really have to think about it. You will have to come to terms that he may never want sex. Also you have to wonder if you are attracted just from the temptation that he is asexual. Else just go for it, and hopefully it all works out. Good luck :)

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (12 September 2012):

You found out that the boy you like is asexual how?

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