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writes:Which is worse, to live with somebody you don't want to be with anymore in a sexual way, but love them or to live life with a broken heart because the person you love doesn't want to be with you and you can't live without them? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2012): To all I'm NOT using anybody. I'm talking about my relationship with my husband. I love him, he doesn't love me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2012): You need to deal with your broken heart and not use the current person you are with as a rebound relationship. It is not fair to that person.
Seek counseling for your broken heart and let the current person go so that they make seek true love for themselves.
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reader, Peonysheart  +, writes (13 September 2012):
 You will never be happy liveing with a broken heart. Its time to let go and move on. It's hard and it hurts but in time it will get better and you will have a chance at happiness again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2012): You are in a relationship for wrong reasons. You cannot have a meaningful relaionship if you are hovering in the past. Let him go and find someone you love or you will continue to be miserable.
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (13 September 2012):
 I think it might be worse to live with a broken heart because the one you love....doesn't love you anymore. I am sorry for your pain. I know what you are going through.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2012): Both scenarios are about rejection… Either you do it to somebody or somebody does it to you… If this is a choice between two people in your life; there are no extra bonus points for living life broken hearted even if you can’t live without them. (What are they a kidney dialysis machine?) That’s being a martyr or a drama queen to say the least.However, the person that you have no sexual desire for is the one that still draws positive emotion out of you – love. The other is centred on you being rejected; as that person you love doesn't want to be with you – which puts you into emotional chaos. Which is worse or should that be, which is better?
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