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writes:I want to know some reasons a boy might hide his feelings. He has told me up straight that he doesn't fancy me, which was hard because I am in love with him. However, at the beginning of last year, he said he wanted to kiss me, and we did. Since then he has been sending me all these mixed signals. He's told a few of my friends he likes me but always denied it to my face. Is he just freaked out because he knows my feelings are stronger for him? Why did he kiss me? What's going on? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2012): Just ask him straight out how he feels and why he kissed you. If it turns out he doesn't like you, and he ever asks to kiss you again, refuse point blank, because he's playing with your emotions.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (13 September 2012):
 If I said once over here, I said 100 times and sorry for the repetitions . Mixed signals = no signals.
When someone has made up his mind and wants something or somebody, there is no code to crack and no mixed wires, the signal are clear, perceivabe and unmistakable.
If the message gets across all garbled, it is because it is a very weak message to begin with, that may change from one hour to the next.
So, just to be on the safe side, and avoid wasting time and emotions,ignore all signas unless they are strong and consistent.
Why did he kiss you ?... Oh well, for the same reason why yesterday you bought a ( say ) chocolate icecream cone. Because you had a hunker for it, because you like ice cream , at times, and because it felt good at that moment. That does not mean that you want to commit yourself to a steady diet of icecream cones only.
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