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writes:okay so me and my boyfriend have been on and off for almost two years. we broke up once because we faught about everything and anything. we broke up again because he just wasn't thinking things through correctly and let his life problems come between us, but the 2nd time we got back together, we were prefect i knew who i was than, unlike the first time and this time. We just recently broke up a third time because we were fighting about stupid things again. he would tell me hes coming than something would come up so i would be upset, thats normal for a girl. all im asking him this time is if something like that happens, just call me and appologize and make it up to me, make accomodations. i recently have been reading alot on how to stop stupid pitty lieing and i learned that if your frustrated you need to take 30 minutes, and just breath. I love this boy and he loves me, were talking tommorow or tonight face to face because he isnt sure he can do it again but yet he isnt sure he doesnt wanna try again. forgive and forget the past,only remember the good,it will take time, but its possible to do. we have never cheated, dated anyone else between these two years, flirted behind eachothers back, were very very faithful and were very close, i just need some wise words to say to him tommorow to let him know we can do this and we shouldnt have let stupid pitty stuff get to that point! but you live and you learn, and i think its safe to say we learned!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe only broke up 3, this is our 3rd. but fighting about stuff like that is completly fixable, i just need some advice on how to stop the fighting... ive read many articles and some say take deep breaths, do something nice in return, dont ignore them. i think itll work, but hes very stubborn but yet he completly loves me.
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reader, MamaJade +, writes (13 September 2012):
 Make sure this is really what you want to go through again!
If you guys have been broken up 4 times already Its most likely going to happen again. But if you truly love care want to be with him just tell him what comes to your mind&heart dont hold anything back! You shouldnt have to convince him to do anything if the feelings are mutual things will work out!
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