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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey everyone,I'm in a fix and I would really like some advise..My boyfriend had this girlfriend who he dated all thru 7th grade till high school,when he joined college he broke up with her,cuz he moved to another city they fell apart,then he met me..we start dating and have been together for 4 years..not this girl the 'EX' is back in our town she got a job here,and recently my boyfriend and her were spending way too much time,we broke into a huge arguement and we broke up,well I broke up..he started dating his ex and I wasn't too surprised I was hurt tho cuz here's the thing I love him to death,and I can't live without him,so he dated his ex for a while,but realised he loves me and came back to me and I took him back,this went on a couple of months and he told me he stopped talkin to the ex well he dint,I asked him to choose its me or her,he said he can't pick and I left him again..and he was with the ex the whole time..now the ex gf contacted me a couple of days ago and said that the guy is just swinging between the both of us and we shld just dump him so that he realises our worth and she was right,so she dumped him and now its my turn and I still haven't done it..he means soo much to me..what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2012): "ex gf contacted me a couple of days ago and said that the guy is just swinging between the both of us and we shld just dump him so that he realises our worth and she was right,so she dumped him and now its my turn and I still haven't done it..he means soo much to me..what do I do?"
You have two options:
a) Stay with a lying cheating scumbag who has absolutely zero respect for you and so treats you like a worthless piece of excrement
b) Muster up a smidgen of respect for yourself and dump a lying cheating scumbag who IS a worthless piece of excrement
"I love him to death, and I can't live without him"
I politely and respectfully but firmly suggest you seek counselling. That you are so needy, insecure and clingy to have latched on to this scumbag leads me to suspect you may have long-term deep-seated issues dating from childhood leaving huge voids and gaping chasms in you are life that you are desperately trying to fill any way possible.
Random question: Was your bio-father in the picture while you were growing up?
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