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writes:I have dated my boyfriend for 7 years Before I didn't mind him having every weekend to himself and his friends. My worry is that sometimes he take an advantage of me and that makes it worse. We were suppose to meet this friday as we've Planned but all of a sudden as I was getting ready to be with him, he called and told me that he is going out with his friend and he will see me later. Which meant I had to travel to his place an sit the whole night just to wait for him until he came back. He has been doing this from the start of our relationship. I just don't know what to say or do anymore. Even when I tell him how I feel he will apologies and again do it the following month. I'm so confused. Reply to this Question
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (7 October 2012):
 Hi
I agree with manhater, I would just do your thing,no explanations,leave him hanging.Be a class act.
He has had his own way long enough.Be strong,good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much manhater 101 and aunt honesty. You have just opened my eyes because I didn't understand what was wrong about him as I'm not a controlling girlfriend. I've tried to give him his freedom he is really disrespecting me over and over again. Thanks a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2012): Hi there! From honest to goodness, if your bf is ok disappointing you, he doesn't care and respect you at all.What to do?Easy, Give him a cold shoulder. Don't mention anything, let him wonder and miss you. If he don't text, don't bother. In other words, Don't be Crazy, Be Classy"Go out with your other friends. let him know that your world does not just revolves around him.Be Pretty and skip the drama, act like you don't care, if he still do the same thing, well it only means he really don't care anymore.But I suggest, if you can keep your feelings to yourself , "KEEP IT" Don't give him the satisfaction of hurting you every time. Becoz letting the jerk knows the drama makes them feel superior, sometimes its best to leave them wondering what went wrong..I hope you can do it... Good luck
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 October 2012):
 If it was me I would be really annoyed and frustrated with him. This shows that he has no respect for you and that his friends come before you. Fair enough if he had to leave your plans for an emergency and it was only once, but the fact that it keeps happening and it is simply just to go out with his friends is unacceptable and unfair on you to sit around waiting for him while he goes out and enjoys himself. If he has made plans with you then he should stick with them, don't allow him to walk all over you. It is time for change. Tell him it is unfair to you and you are not going to put up with it any more, tell him he needs to change or else you are out the door and not looking back, be strong and follow through with it.
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