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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi everybody,I have been dating a guy for 6 years and 3 months now,my first boyfriend,my first kiss,my first in many ways..we understand each other,there are at times where I don't have to say anything as to why I'm upset and he would just hug me and it would all be okay..But things have gotten very stressful lately,I lost my grandmother to cancer,then my mother and my elder recently,about a year ago I have been diagnosed with the same,according to doctors I have little time in hand,and I'm totally ok with that,cuz I was prepared but my boyfriend isn't,I want him to move in and not be my caretaker..I want him to fall in love,because when I'm not there he would need somone beside him,stand by him,support him..I heard him tell his friend abt 2 nights ago that he would not marry someone else,and that he can never fall In love with someone the way he did with me,even if he tries he would have to force himself and at the back of his mind,I would still be there..I am scared if me going away will leave a permanent scar:( what can I do to help me get over this!I want to do something!?should I talk to him?
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reader, Wow123  +, writes (20 October 2012):
You should talk to him and tell him how you feel you are already pretty stressed and you don't want to get even more worked up... I say just tell him how you feel. Its the only way forward.
Hope this helps xxxx
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