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writes:Hi,So there's a guy that I met a few months ago through some family friends, and when we first hung out, we really hit it off.We had a lot of fun. But as things progressed, I clued into my girl instinct and picked up a few signs that maybe he liked me. Let me just explain that I'm currently working on being more confident in myself, and I can be kind of shy at times, which multiplies when I'm around guys. I just dont know what to do, I guess. So when I thought maybe he liked me, there was a moment or two when I got scared and broke eye contact with him. This wasn't even an extended period where I ignored him or anything, it was a couple seconds max.Now he won't speak to me at all anymore. It just seems really odd and put of sorts to me, especially when he'll still talk to everyone else in my family but me. I'm just really hurt and confused right now. Why would someone just randomly just start hating me? What do I do? What do I say to him?
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (20 October 2012):
 So you broke eye contact with him for a few seconds and now he won't speak to you? That's pretty insane. It is very off putting and I wouldn't bother with this guy anymore because he clearly has issues. Even if he thought you weren't interested in him romantically it is a bit mean, rude, and just weird to ignore you completely but talk to all of your family. If you want to still talk to him I would start with asking what's up? Why ignore me? But I can't imagine this guy as someone to date.... He's seems one to overreact to the smallest of things and a bit psycho.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2012): Darling he doesn't hate you. Based on your story I definitely assure you that his just confused about you.
First you hit it off, then you gave him a cold shoulder??
So normally, he would be clueless.
Why dont you make a first move and talk to him again like a friend. Start all over.
Don't think about your feelings for him or his feelings for you. Just PRACTICE to act as normally as you can, around him, be comfortable talking to him, when the right time comes, when your ready or his ready.. Should i say when both are ready, thats the time you both your feelings for each other..Good luck...
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