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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi im 27 his 41 i love him so much he once told me that he wants to marry me but he was drunk when he told me. his a person who live a private life. i dont know if i should trust him on that i got one kid and his got six not seing the mommys anymore. im self employed i have never asked him to help me finantially and has never offered to help. could he be fooling me around? should i take what he tells me when his drunk seriously since that his a quite person? guys i would love to be given comments from you than ladiesthanks
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (22 October 2012):
 if he hardly drinks and only talks when he's drunk then there's not a lot of conversation going on....
whatever the case, never believe what they say when not fully in control.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe hardly drinks and he only talks when he's drunk
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 October 2012):
How often is he drunk? if it's regularly, then I'd avoid the situation all together.. if it was a one time thing he probably doesn't remember and I would discount it.
My husband drinks... and when he's drunk, he often does not remember what he said or did.
I'd not hold him to it. With six kids and several baby momma's he's no prize honey...
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (20 October 2012):
 My response is two-tiered:
1. NEVER believe anything that a guy says, the FIRST time.... and be wary in all subsequent repeats by him...
2. NEVER, NEVER believe anything that a guy says when he has been drinking alcohol.... and continue not to believe him for HOWEVER many times he repeats it....
IF women could "learn" this, there would be SO MUCH LESS anguish in the world....
Good luck....
P.S. I chose NOT to "pile on" by reminding you that a 27 Y.O. woman should NEVER, NEVER, NEVER listen to romantic advances from a man who is 14 years her senior....
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