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writes: I'm 15 and my bf is a 4 yrs older than me. My parents don't know anything abt him. We didn't talk abt sexual things for a long time after we started this. But one day he asked me why won't you talk about such things with me. Then we started to talk about those things. Then he told me about his ex. She had given him a video of her when she was naked. Then he wanted to see me naked. But I was scared and shy to do that. I didn't do that even for my ex. But I love my bf so much and I showed my naked body to him. But he said I'm too young to have sex. We both are virgins. And in our culture having sex before marriage is a bad thing. 2 weeks before also he saw me on a Sunday. After that he came near my house on wednesday then thursday night he asked me about my exam marks in the school. I lied about my maths marks. But his friend is our principl's son. So he has found my marks from him. He asked me why did I lied him. I said I don't know I was scared. And that day I told him lots of things about me before he met me. After that he didn't msg me. Then on saturday night he told me I'm having a problem but don't ask me about that. It's not about you. But I want be alone for few days. Msg me but not every time. Before that he asked me for a pic of me when I'm naked but I didn't give him that. Now he is very different. If I send him a msg he won't rply me. Very oftenlhe's testing me. I asked him do you want me or not. He said he is living thinking of me. Bt he wants to be alone for few days. If not he tells even he doesn't know what will happen.. I don't know what's going on. On day I talked with his ex and got angry. I don't know what' happening. How can I not know about it. He won't tell me anything. I'm crying everyday. I love him alot and I don't know what to do. I think the the foolish thing I've ever done is showing my body to him.I don't know from where or how to tell my problem. And I didn't tell some things. Please can anybody tell me what has happend to him
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2012): So you are more concerned about why he's gone cold on you, than you are about having underage sex and sex before marriage with this guy? From the sound of your follow-up post.
Disgracing yourself and going against your faith/religion means nothing to you OP?
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (21 October 2012):
 Even worse then,
He wanted the picture, not you. Probably to sell.
FA
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reader, Hennessy1989  +, writes (20 October 2012):
 I agree with the other posters, your lucky to get out of this and away from this sex pest
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2012): No it's not like that. He loves to see me naked he said I'm beautiful ( i'm a good looking girl) and he had the chance to have sex with me because I didn't tell him anything. Actually I asked him to do it but he refused it because I'm small.after that I gave him a pic of mine. But after I lied about my marks this happened.
He loves me a lot. But he won't tell his problem with me
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2012): He sounds like a creep who is only interested in sex with young girls/virgins. Now he's realised he won't get it from you, he's lost interest, and most likely is spending his "Alone time" looking for another young girl to groom for sex.
Ok, showing a guy your naked body at the age of 15 wasn't the smartest thing to do, but at least you won't have to suffer the indignity and disgrace that would have been if you would have had sex with him before marriage, and at the age of just 15.
Move on and forget about this guy.
Concentrate on your studies.
You DON'T need him, or anyone like him.
Good luck!
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (20 October 2012):
I can tell you a few things about him. They should help explain where he has gone and why.
1. He is not a virgin.
2. He prefers younger girls.
3. He wants to keep you separated from your parents so he cam be the authority figure in your life.
4. He was only ever interested in having sex with you once.
When you stopped giving him what he asked for he moved on to the next victim. Consider yourself lucky to have gotten away so easily.
FA
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