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male
age
30-35,
*ohammed Shuaib
writes: My girlfriend and I dated 2 years back,we broke up,she got married and is now divorced. We did get back together recently and have decided to get married. After seeing her her ex husband not too long ago(never made convo),I've noticed a change in her behaviour towards me. The sweet loving caring person has faded away. We had a fairly good sex life and that has also changed. I'm getting the feeling that she still loves him but tells me she loves me just for the sake of my happiness. She tends to daydream a lot,her mind just drifts off even it be an important convo. She misunderstands me most of the time when I talk or want to talk about our relationship. Am I being paranoid?
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (20 October 2012):
I am looking at your age. The sequences of the relationships happened too fast, back to back because of impulsiveness. You are also one of her exes. You broke up but did not resolve anything. She was desperate and got married but didn't work out because she didn't love that guy. She tried with you again but wasn't sure if that's a good idea. She is in love with the idea of relationships, and can't stand being alone. You should give her space to decide what she wants. You also think about whether you want to take back a woman who married someone else right after your break up. She could still have feelings for you, but she wasn't allowed time to move on from her marriage. If you continue this both of you will be paranoid and confused.
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