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writes:I met this guy through my cousin, and it seemd like a good idea. We atrted texting, we met once but it was brief, and i knew there was just something about him. I thouhgt about him off and all, and he finally got my number. So we started texting, and we talked for a week before we hung out. It went well i thought, we were talking laughing, and later in the night held hands. And he told me he liked me and wanted it to go further, but he had problems from past relationshiops he needed to work out. and im a vary impatient girl... So we hung out the next day, it was fun, we flirted and all and he showed that he wanted me, well later that night things got touchy feely... and the next day things seemed awkward... so i text him and he said he wanted to take it slow but that wasnt a big deal... And slowly he started not texting me... A few here and there but then... nothng... and things were looking up, we got over our first bunmp in the road.. so i text him off of my grandmas phone, and what happens? he texts back immediatly... so i may have gone off, but i apologized later.it has been about. 3 weeks since that's happened and I get a text after my every 7... Is there anything I can say to get him to txt me? I've tried the jealous approach and he just deleted from Facebook, tried to get him to feel guilty and tried to be nice and mean... Nothing has worked why is he doing this? Is there a way I can get this work?. so any info that will help me talk to him or vise versa would be great! Pleasehelp! Any advice that doesn't include giving up. thanks!!!Kaiti
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reader, fishdish +, writes (21 October 2012):
 He either isn't feeling it or you two went too fast and he started to think badly of you. Some guys want to fool around but when they figure out you're all too willing, they find that trashy; it sucks. I also think you got too invested too fast, it doesn't seem like you had enough there to be guilt-tripping him, making him jealous, being nice or mean, and when you started to freak out, he cut you out. You COULD ask your cuz if s/he thought there was any chance left bet. you two, but I would just move on. I get that that's not what you want to hear, but it sounds like you've done everything you can and either your actions or his disinterest is reinforcing his not wanting to be more active in pursuing you.
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