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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I cheated on my long distance boyfriend. I got so lonely waiting around for him to return home. The relationship more or less is dead. Do I tell him or do I just break up? I feel so guilty.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (21 October 2012):
 Don't tell him... there is no need...
just break up with him... it's over and done anyway as you have said.. why drag it out?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 October 2012):
 If you are about to end the relationship regardless I wouldn't tell him, that is your "baggage" to bear.
Your intentions aren't to make the break up easier on him, but to unload the guilt you might feel over cheating...
I mean REALLY what will telling him accomplish?
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reader, Staceily +, writes (21 October 2012):
 If you are breaking up anyway then leave it alone. Telling him will only hurt him unnecessarily. It's like adding insult to injury.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (21 October 2012):
 If the relationship is circling the bowl then there is no point in telling him. All that will do is hurt him. Just end it so you can meet and date others without hiding it or feeling guilty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2012): Since you cheated, you must be honest and talk to him, because technically you are still in a relationship with him for you never had a serious talk about breaking up. To me formal closure is important, at least no one will be left stupid or hanging on..Anyway, if you really think its dead, that's fine.if there's no way to get in touch, just go with the flow, and start all over. You cant wait too long forever for nothing...After all, silence means a thousand words......
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