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He makes me jealous on purpose and then when I talk about it he says I'm nagging! How do I stop letting him bother me and act unconcerned?

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Question - (20 November 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2012)
A female Ghana age 30-35, *ercyy writes:

Anytime my boyfriend gets me jealous and I talk he says am nagging and complaining..I feel hurt whenever he says that to me..I want to stop asking him for explanation for the things he does to piss me,Pls how do I act like I don't care about what he does and am not bothered..?anytime am quite he ask me what the problem is and when i tell him he says i always complain..will acting unconcern make him stop getting me jealous.. how do I hold myself?

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (20 November 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntGreat "boyfriend" you've got there. Why don't you trade him in on a new one????

Good luck....

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (20 November 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntwhat is he doing that makes you jealous? he can't make you jealous without your feeding into it... if my husband sat on another woman's lap I would not be jealous I would laugh and say "you can have him".... because I know he's not interested in being with anyone but me.

jealousy is an emotion that is rooted in insecurity... why do you feel so insecure about him?

when he asks what's wrong just say "nothing" and keep quiet...

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