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writes:hi there i need some help, about a year ago me and my partner split up and three days later i kissed another guy which my partner found out about he started sleeping with another girl and maybe more which really has hurt me i cant stop thinking about it even now, we got back together after a month but i dont think it ment anything between him and the other girl i think its cus he was hurt by my actions what do you think? he loves me to bits and weve been together for 4 years how do i deal with the past.
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reader, danni123 +, writes (18 November 2012):
danni123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi there thanks for your comment its does make sense and its quite releiving coming from someone who i dont know, i do think she was his second option wen he found out about what i had done and im not really like that to kiss other guys iv never done that before i maybe had enough of our arguing, but i regretted it straight away, the guy actually told my boyfriend the same night it happend so he must have felt the absolute need to sleep with someone else, any more advice on this would be much appreciated thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2012): This happened when you broke up with him so technically you werent going out. For you a one night stand was kissing someone...to guys unfortunetely its having sex! Even if he did see this girl for abit, it stopped because he was still obviously in love with you. This is evident in the fact you are back together again. He chose you. He wants you. He loves you. She was a rebound to try help him not hurt as much but i guarantee it didnt work hence the reason shes gone! Take some solice in what i said and stop thinking and worrying, just enjoy. Just so long as he is faithful and honest now while hes with you thats all that matters. Enjoy the present and future with him. Take care
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