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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 7 months now and she keeps going through my phone constantly without asking even though she never finds anything on there as there isn't anything 'dodgy' going on. Can someone please advise me on why she is doing this and what i should do? (btw i'm 20 and she is 18) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have tried asking her why she does it and the only response i get off of her is that she 'wants to'. Other than my phone she has been through my facebook messages whilst looking through my phone and i dont have twitter anyway.
And finally thanks everyone for the advice it has all been useful.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (17 November 2012):
 Ask her.
And I agree with Oldbag - next time she does it go through HER phone. She how she likes them apples.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 November 2012):
 It's exactly what oldbag said.
EITHER she's distrustful based on her past experiences or her personalty or she's just nosy....
have you asked her?
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reader, kenny +, writes (17 November 2012):
 One of the key factors that bind a relationship together is trust, if there is no trust in a relationship then its sure to fail at some point, and she clearly does not trust you.
Whats her reasons for going through your phone, have you given her any reason to mis-trust you?. She is obviously quite insecure, i think you need to talk to her about this and tell her its got to stop. There is nothing dodgy going on, and there is no reason for her to think there is.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (17 November 2012):
 Hi
She's either very insecure or extremely nosey.Does she say anything to you as to why she does it or make a comment afterwards?
I would just ask her why she does it and tell her you would prefer her not to.She either learns to trust you or she doesn't date you... Does she check your Facebook or Twitter too?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2012): She does not trust you, don't be surprise it she hast'n already checked your wallet and plus she's very inquisitive. Next time she pick up your phone then you go thru her phone and see how she act.
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