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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello EveryoneI come here asking for help :/ ...you see there is this girl i am now dating for the second time. And the way i feel about her is much more different than the way I've felt about any other girl in my entire life.. Even while I was dating other girls i would often think of her and regret not being with her, I would dream about her even when dating other girls. I just cant explain how I feel about her. The problem that lies beneath that is i get this uncomfortable feeling when dated when we are apart that she was losing interest in me. And after dating her again only after a week im getting that feeling again. But i know deep down that she really cares and has a lot of feelings for me. I know that because that feeling goes completely away when we are together. But when we aren't together and shes not texting me too much or not showing a lot of affection i start thinking shes losing interest. I try and avoid being too clingy by having her text me first and giving her some space when she doesn't text back right away. I just don't know why i get this feeling of "paranoia" when we aren't together and it scares me into thinking its actually fact.But even recently she was talking about us dating in the future and talking about going to each others families for holidays. I just want to know if anyone has experienced this paranoia and how i can get rid of these negative thoughts that arent even the case...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2012): I think your in love with her. That's great. All you need to do is to give her assurance that what you feel for her is real. The girl your dating, is the kind of girl any man would like to have. She knows how to carry herself. Not clingy, not pressuring you, giving you space and freedom and its making you crazy. I like her.
If you don't want to lose her all you need to do is be real, and when your together, make her feel that she's the only girl for you and believe me things will change. Just the way you want her to be. Good luck
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