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I flirt with my wife's slutty friends. Could this be a reason for her going cold on me?

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Question - (17 November 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 November 2012)
A male United States age 51-59, *hymexycpl writes:

My wife has friends who are slutty and easy but when we go out I tend to flirt with them and carry on like i'm interested, but really I only like the thought and sometimes the occasional petting.

I dont want my wife to freak if I'm ever caught in a situation or so, but she has been kind of cold in the room and not intrested in the same kind of fun anymore.

So what should I do, go with the flow or just what?

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (17 November 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntYou could START by discontinuing acting like an A*S.....

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (17 November 2012):

person12345 agony aunt"dude you're lucky she hasn't castrated you with her bare hands."

Just about.

"Referring to women as 'slutty' in this day and age is derogatory, bigoted and vile."

Yup.

If your wife was on here asking about you, I'd tell her to divorce you immediately.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (17 November 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntWhat would you say to your wife if she posted:

"My husband has friends who are trashy and easy but when we go out I tend to flirt with them and carry on like i'm interested, but really I only like the thought and sometimes the occasional petting."?

so here it is

you think that your wife's friends are slutty (a rude judgmental term)

you flirt (probably outrageously and very openly) with them

you occasionally have sexual contact with YOUR WIFE'S FRIENDS? (petting is sexual contact)

AND you can't understand why your wife has GONE COLD?

dude you're lucky she hasn't castrated you with her bare hands.

do you and your wife have an open marriage?

IF NOT you are a cheating piece of work and she should divorce you.

IF you have an open marriage then you need to ask her why your dog like behavior is bothering her.

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A female reader, VenusFlowerBasket United Kingdom +, writes (17 November 2012):

A woman's libido goes down when her man shows interest in other women or watches porn. Your actions are disrespectful and referring to women as sluts is disgusting, and ironic seeing as you sound pretty easy yourself.

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (17 November 2012):

AuntyEm agony auntI think you should give her a divorce to allow her to find someone decent who has more respect for women.

Referring to women as 'slutty' in this day and age is derogatory, bigoted and vile.

You have more 'issues' about you that you are unaware of and you deserve to be alone.

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