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I don't want to lose my friend because of who she is dating!

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Question - (1 November 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 November 2012)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hey guys y bestfriend who is a top aunt on here is falling away im 15 and she is in a relationship with a guy and he tries to make e jealous and get her to do things like give him blowjobs while im there she says no but he goes on and on untill i have to leave he does this everytime i want to hang out i liked him but after this i spend more time with my bestfriends mum and i like that but i want y bestfriend back i have helped her through suicide and many darktimes yet we are just drifting apart because of him her mum and i know his plan to get rid of me but my bestfriend wont listen they have alot of trouble together he has cheated and such i think he still messes with her head like he did before but she is love blind i said to myself i will not let him win but im just getting tired of it and just want it back to normal once you help a friend through something like suicide you grow a bond i dont love her i just worry like she is family and i fear once im out of her life he will kick her will she is down and with know one really to talk to so guys can you help me please?

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A male reader, CJH United Kingdom +, writes (1 November 2012):

CJH agony auntThis guy is clearly not suitable for your friend.

I'm going to give you some honest advice here....

You say you are spending more time with your best friends mum? This give you the perfect opportunity to tell this woman exactly what type of idiot your friend is going out with.

To try to insist on blow jobs whilst others are watching is nothing short of perverse and your friend deserves better than that.

Stop looking at this as some kind of battle between you and the other guy. Instead, focus on being a good friend to this poor girl.

Right now she needs rescuing, if you arent able to do that for her, I'm sure her mother will be happy to step in.

Please trust me on this, if everything you have written is true, this is a story of an abusive relationship. See it that way rather than becoming jealous.

Ultimately the end result will hopefully be the same - this idiot will be shown the door and your friend will be free of him.

Good luck.

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