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*reamer876
writes:This guy I was talking to recently got out of a long term relationship and he has kids with this woman. A few months ago he decided to get back with her because he didn't want to pull his kids away from their mother. Since they got back together we have decided to just be friends and that's completely fine with me. But what I don't get is he has no intention of leaving her but he keeps asking me to send him pictures of myself and yesterday he sent me a picture when I didn't want one. Why is he doing this?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 May 2012):
 Stop talking to him, he is NOT your friend.
Why is he doing he? Maybe because he thinks he can manipulate you into doing what he want.
Cut the contact, block him number, move on.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (7 May 2012):
 He's doing it because YOU allow it!!!!
From your description of this guy.... and what has gone on between the two of you.... you would do well to cease any contact with him. If you do (stop contact) then "the picture" question will go away.....
Good luck..
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (7 May 2012):
 Because he doesn't see you as a friend, but a sexual outlet. Agreeing (or suggesting) you remain 'friends' was just to keep you around in hopes of having a toy on the side.
He is not your friend. He doesn't ask his guy friends for naked pictures. And he is not in love with you.
You can do without this sort in your life.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (6 May 2012):
 It sounds to me like he wants to have you both. I wouldn't reccomend even staying in touch with him if he keeps this up because you will get tossed right into all the family drama before you know it.
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