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anonymous
writes:Hey everyone! Im 17 years old and was at a party a couple of days ago! I was picking music on an ipod when a guy comes and agrees with my music taste so we start talking and standing close.we stood up a against a wall and i thought he was really nice. we talked about where we come from and normal stuff. He asked me why I didn't dance when I had picked the music but I told him i didnt want to right then. I asked if we could go talk outside that room because people were screaming and he said yeah and took me all the way outside. we talked there and i asked for a cigarette and he said he only had 2 so he didnt want to give me one. (bad sign?) then my friends came and i started talking to them a lot.my friends told me the day after that i had started talking to them even though i was standing with him, maybe i ignored him a alittle. I went inside at a point and saw him dancing/talking with some girl and a friend, but i also talked a bit to him but he seemed a bit cold. i felt as tough i was annoying him when i cam up to him.... so we talked a few times that night. At last when i was about to leave he was outside so we talked and said goodbye with a hug and there he was really nice, it was when his friend was there that he seemed a bit arrogant.. even though he didn't seem extremely interested, but still enough because he took the first contact, i want to see him again. my friend who goes to the same school as him found him for me on facebook , now i dont know if it would be okay to write him a little message that i thought he was a nice guy, or maybe add him... What do you think? :) we didnt kiss or anything but we hugged goodbye and i just thought he was good looking and nice most of the time. 'I'm asking you guys because im pretty scared of rejection.. my guy friend that many people say llikes me, told me i kept coming up to him at the party, so maybe the other guy thinks im too pushy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question'He answered my message and said that he rememembered with an exclamation point.. but i asked him if he enjoyed his weekend and he said yes and explained something to me and didn't even ask me back... I hate boys sometimes they are so complicated :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice :) I've sent him a message on facebook saying thanks for last time, and where we met :) We'll see if he answers, if not, then there's nothing more to it, if yes then I'll take it from there :) I guess I'm just really afraid of rejection or something like that :) And yes, I know about the smoking, it's bad and disgusting!
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reader, xgod  +, writes (6 May 2012):
 You could either just ask the guy if he likes you or not. It would be quick, like ripping the band-aid off. If he does liek you, go from there.
Just be safe and remember that men like to put on a facade when around their pals. That facade is sometimes cold and harsh. What he does when you are alone together and then if he keeps that honest and true are the most important parts of having a relationship.
If he simply says no then don't worry about the one-time encounter.
Also, since you are so young, know that smoking is something you should avoid. It will lead to disease, death, and excruciating pain.
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