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*iss___Confused
writes:Just a quick question...Do you find a woman attractive even if they have asymmetrical breasts?I know many womens breasts are different but mine are by about half a cup size to about a cup size when I am on the pill or on my period. I am thinking about getting a boob job to even them out but would that make me less attractive as some guys dont like fake boobs. HELP! Although I am insecure about my breasts I am quite confident normally but when it gets to the point with a guy where we get naked I get all shy because I dont know how he will react when he sees my wonky boobs. This is due to an asshole of an ex who humiliated me quite publicly about them. But anyway, do you guys find it repulsive or a deal breaker in a relationship? Thanks in advance x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2012): My breasts aren't even~ one is a little smaller and pointy, with a different nipple position. One nipple is also smaller by a fair amount than the other. I used to be, and i still get, a little insecure about them. But, neither my ex, or my current boyfriend care. They've never said anything about them apart from how much they love them. So I guess only shallow guys who aren't worth your time, would find them unattractive.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (6 May 2012):
 Should not matter at all to any good man.
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reader, xgod +, writes (6 May 2012):
 Miss___Confused,ALL women have asymmetrical breasts.The muscle beneath your breast is what determines the fat tissue which makes up the size of the breast.If you are right-handed, your right breast will be slightly firmer, higher, and smaller. Left-handed women have the same thing with their left breast.This is normal and one way to deal with it is to exercise your non-dominant hand and arm more often. Sure, this may reduce the size of that side but it will make the breasts perkier, more toned, and MORE EVEN.Getting a boob job is extremely expensive and painful. Try doing exercises. (opening and closing your hand, flexing your arm, even using your non-dominant arm to do the most common things your dominant arm usually does will eventually even them out more)
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reader, person12345 +, writes (6 May 2012):
 Most women have different cup sizes by between 1/2 a full cup. That is what a normal variance is. Mine are different by about 1/2 a cup size and my boyfriend hasn't even noticed. Even when I pointed it out to him. Unless they're off by more than a cup size I doubt most guys will even notice, let alone care.
Your ex is a total piece of scum to humiliate you publicly about that. He must have known you were insecure about it and wanted to hurt you, rather than saying it because he cared about the size difference.
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