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writes:So i met this guy a little while ago. Our age gap is quite large but I think thats why its working out so well so far. I'm 21 and he's 33. Normally I have trouble with relationships and I get annoyed with the guy really quick (1 or 2 weeks) and it doesn't seem to make it past that point because they're always hanging around me and not giving me enough space. But this guy is different... we see each other when time allows (around twice a week) and he doesn't get angry if i can't hang out. The other night i was laying in bed with him and as corny as it sounds... it just felt really right and i realized i really want to be with him. I guess i just feel weird because ive never felt this way about anyone before.. i've never missed a guy and i actually miss him all the time and want to see him any chance i get. We've been having sex/hanging out for a little over a month now but i want to know when i should maybe have that "talk" with him about being exclusive. I've never been the type to bring that stuff up because i firmly believe you should just enjoy eachother's company and take it for what it is at the moment. Do you think i should wait and see what happens? Or should there be a point where it up? I just really like this guy and am confused because ive never liked someone so much before. Reply to this Question
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reader, Glacier  +, writes (7 May 2012):
Your situation (now and before) is a perfect case of the importance of 'everything in moderation'. Your new guy is giving you the amount of time you feel happy with but not too much time.
I'm a believer in the power of desire. Consider it healthy that you're longing for him. This makes you enjoy him more when you're together.
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reader, dirtydevil  +, writes (6 May 2012):
that means u have got a man of your dream...simple
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