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writes: Hi everyone I'm not sure what to do about this situation I have been in a fwb for 14 months I have three men asking for a date with me I met one last weekend which seems really nice but the trouble is I don't want any of these only my fwb he does not wanting me to me meet anyone else as he gets jealous but he doesn't want me as a girlfriend what do I do in this situation without hurting anyone thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2012): Turf the FWB.
Keep your distance for 6 months. After 6 months. See if he is ready to date with the possibility of long term.
If not.
Well you have 6 months of dating to seek a Man that has no commitment issues or is too lazy to put more effort into an adult relationship by being emotionally available.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2012): Any of the 3 guys could turn out to be really lovely and want a good relationship with you. The FWB guy is only there to meet your and his physical needs. You do not have to explain to him about the guys who ask to date you, so there is no need to worry. You have got too emotionally involved with him and it will not go anywhere.
If you want to date others then go ahead, its his problem if he gets possesive.You do not have to rub his nose in your dating life, just don't see the FWB,give another guy a chance and yourself.
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reader, sweetiebabes  +, writes (6 May 2012):
 Would you like to see yourself in the future with a man who will really want to be with you and love you?
FWB relationship is only about one thing SEX and it will never go beyond that.You are setting up yourself here one day to be hurt. Honestly, you are not hurting them, you are hurting yourself.
Try to think and do what is best for you that will make you happy.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (6 May 2012):
 It will be the same as if you didn't have your FWB, if you don't like a guy, turn him down and don't accept another date. When you said you only want your FWB, does that mean you are happy with the limitations of the relationship or are you waiting for him to want you as a girlfriend? Your dates with other people and your FWB should be separate. Your FWB does not need to hear who you are going out with. Him knowing that other men are chasing you would not make him want a real relationship to protect what he has with you. The only benefit of an exclusive FWB relationship is that there is less risk of STDs and if any chance you get pregnant he is less likely to deny being father. However if you have unprotected sex with others it is still your moral duty to tell him this so he could get himself protected, or to discontinue the FWB. Any one who agrees to be in an FWB accepts that there will be hurt in the future. If not hurting others you will definitely be hurting yourself and your chances of a decent relationship.
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