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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi everyone im in a long distance relationship situation i am feeling that im not the priority by my boyfriend and im not sure whether im part of his plans or enter in his world, he just visited here last few months, weve been 2 years knew getting know each other talking on phone and skype. he stayed here for 2 month. im not sure whether i end this relationship. i know he support my studies. but until were like this? he always telling me he ,misses me, but i dont think he has plan to closed the distance. hes 12 years older than me or its just like plan for both of us, basically i think our relationship its just technical. like visit here for once a year. but he never tells me anyting to be together. i really do miss him so much the loniliness kills me. i ask him to move with me. but he said he has to work there in canada. and im from london.. he cant make decisions about us. like i said i want him to be closer. he always said hes in another country. i think i deserve a bit more serious commitment in our relationshipi want to ask him or to explain to him that i want to feel im part of his life, but i dont know how to pop up the questions. because in my opinion if the man realy loves you. and he wants to be with you he will push you aor pursue you just to be with you. i think doesnr really care about our relationship i dont know how to talk to him, even ask him what our conversation is. i dont wanna be the one who push this relationship. i want us to be together will decide for it. not just me.sometimes when i talk to him, theres no spark at all. cause i have nothing to say to him anymore im kinda boring in our relationship and needs to jump in another level.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 June 2012):
 He is not serious about you, if he was he would make more off an effort. Dump him or else you will just keep getting hurt as he uses you. He is not in love with you and if he wanted to be with you he would find a way. He is messing with your head. Time to say goodbye.
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