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*UPERBIKE ERIC
writes: There is an amazing woman who is my personal banker and every time I go in to see her about my account (1x weekly but much more this past week)she is constantly twirling her hair, eyes flutter back and forth to my eyes but the question i really need answering is this? I am sitting next to her and she is using the computer mouse and I find that she's using her pinky finger to constantly touch my hand and while were discussing things she's constantly playing with (twirling and flipping) her hair back. She is to say the least smoking hot, perfect and when i am staring into her eyes there are times her eyes are fluttering back and forth side to side into my eyes. Does she like me or am I acting outright weird? She is very intelligent and works with a lot of people in the bank. My hands when it's near hers when she's using the computer mouse seems too far to touch mine so she has to stretch her pinky so I assume she likes me? Reply to this Question
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (9 June 2012):
 I am not sure about drinks. I never like to have drinks with a man until I get to know him and trust him a bit (in case I need a ride home). Your call though. I think lunch would be good...maybe a pizza place or someplace fun...something low-key and not intimidating. With her previous moves however...she may want YOU for lunch! Have fun!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 June 2012):
 FIRST Dates are just to see if you click..
I think one or two hours over a drink is a great first date
then you can progress to dinner...
but to be honest EVENTUALLY you should if you continue to see her come clean about your marriage.
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reader, SUPERBIKE ERIC +, writes (8 June 2012):
SUPERBIKE ERIC is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks ladies for the advice. In my past as a guy we tend to read into everything and to be honest I know a lot of people who are very friendly and do the same stuff as mentioned above that in my opinion aren't interested. Is asking her out for coffee my best "FIRST DATE" move? I recently got divorced on Feb 14th of this year and unfortunately lives in Brasil so we pretty much lived as singles our entire relationship/marriage since 2005. I do know enough that I will never ever bring up my marriage (even though she knows about it) when being with her. Please I hope the responses from you ladies understand some of us guys do need the very obvious signs short of stripping naked in front of us. YOUR ADVICE WAS AWESOME AND VERY HELPFUL. PLEASE STAND BY I MIGHT NEED MORE HELP LATER ON. I hope she appreciates a very romantic and loving man who desires to give her massages and lots of love and can talk to her and stare into her eyes for years and still fall head over heals everyday knowing she is perhaps the worlds most beautiful woman on earth. LOVE,LOVE,LOVE,LOVE YOU GUYS THANKS!!!!!!!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 June 2012):
Ask her for coffee!
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (8 June 2012):
Good grief, does this woman have to take off her clothes and dance on her desk too? Would that be obvious enough? Any woman who touches you is very much interested. You'd better go for it before she loses interest. If I put the energy into flirting like that and the advances weren't returned...I'd get bored after about 2 tries and give up!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (7 June 2012):
 Why not ask her out and find out?? She probably thinks you like HER with as much time as you spend at the bank playing fingersy with her.
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