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writes:i am a 24 years old virgin going out with a guy for over six years now,though we do kiss nd do some other thing,but not to have sex,but sometimes i feel pity for him just because of his patience with me.what should i do,cos i dont want to have sex with someone and at end of the day i will regret it. Reply to this Question
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (28 June 2012):
 I would go a step farther than Janniepeg and question the sexuality of both you and your boyfriend.
You don't want to have sex at all? It's one thing to want it and keep to a moral code. It's quite another to totally NOT want it. At 24 years old, having been together for 6 years, if morality were involved on one or both your parts, you would have been married by now.
Of course I wonder at his sexuality if he's okay with not either moving forward physically or moving forward with commitment after 6 years, but there is a BIG difference between wanting and abstaining, and not wanting with no change of mind in sight.
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reader, Candycane1234  +, writes (28 June 2012):
 A red blooded man must be relieving his sexual urges somehow. Most blokes can't hold back their urges to have sex unless they are getting it from other places; porn, prostitutes, cheating etc... not saying this is the case. He must be a christian or have a low sex drive, he could possibly be asexual, where he has romantic feelings but not sexual.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (28 June 2012):
 At the end of 6 years you should already know if you want to be with this person for the rest of your life. I think it's kind of odd that he never asks for it and that the make out sessions never went anywhere near sex. I would question his sexuality because he seems too saintly and calm to be okay with no sex for 6 years.
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