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male
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36-40,
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writes:I'm married for just about 5 years and I feel like I'm over protective over my wife,and insecure. Like when she needs to go work out of town once or twice a week,we always have arguments because I don't approve her going so far. The dangers and risk is much too high. She works for a company where I believe there should be only women,and feel like the guys working there are not man enough to get a real job. She loves me and I do love her but I love her so much that I feel like I'm over doing it. I have tried to just let it flow and try leave her to go and not worry but its not working. I am a full time fire fighter and see horrible things in my daily duties this might be part of it. I love her and our children with all my heart but sometimes feel like I can't do this week in and week out,its realy frustrating for me but I do feel a lot for her and sometimes feel like I'm loving her to much.I also know that its reality we live in and that other people don't give a shit about others relationships. I have been hurt before and won't let it happen ever again. I wish somebody could give me some help on this subject and not criticize,or give me an answer that reflects on other relationships.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2012): this might make her think you don't trust her and that's not a good feeling to have. Plus you are going crazy and over thinking it and it is probably bothering her.
Relax, she married you, what more do you want. Out of everyone in this world, she picked you, you don't need more than this to prove her love and her commitment to you.
You might have trust issues from a previous relationship which still haunt you, but do not let it affect your relationship now, since it is completely different.
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