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writes:I have a friend, who had a gf and whilst we were talking he'd flirt and hint at our friendship being something more. Luckily I didn't fall for it but it turns out he was cheating on his gf and now that she's dumped him, he really really upset and really really wants her back and our friendship has taken a nosedive. We would talk at least 2ce a week now I don't hear from him (its been roughly a month). Thing is we got quite "close" and I told him a few personal things but now I'm feeling that his friendship was fake. Whatt do you think, is he just still really upset? Also I kinda wanna distance myself cos I'm not sure about him anymore, do you think next time I see him I should be obvious about it and be cold with him? Or am I being too sensitive and just carry on like normal and be his not so close friend?
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reader, Paula4u  +, writes (28 June 2012):
 Oh no! I would keep clear of him, he realised that his gf would not accept his playing away and now is trying to get her back. Its probably a power thing once lost he is back on the hunt again.. and some men will never stop, Once he feels secure with her again he will become bored and start straying again. The gf was wise she left him? or they are trying to resolve things, obviously the deal would be, no other women...
Keep clear of him he was spoken for and it appears his heart may also be. Its not worth the hassle my love.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (28 June 2012):
 I think you know this guy clearly has *issues* right now so its wise to steer clear and keep him as a distant friend and nothing more.
He is upset over his girlfriend so clearly he has feelings for her; and trying to get close to you would have spoilt everything for you and your friend;
so steer clear i advise, so you avoid yourself any trouble from him.
Goodluck!
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