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writes:this girl i kinda like confesed to a mate that she would sleep with me if i asked, he told me so i confronted her and basicly asked whats the deal why didnt u tell me, all that sorta stuff, n it got to the point where after a lot of flriting and chatting up she said to come round on the weekend and "we can fuck", i told her to message me before, wich she never so i messaged her and she ignored me, so come the weekend and still no contact i got my mate to message her to find out why shes ignoring me (she anoyingly replyed to him) and the reason was she is very upset about stuff and doesnt feal like talking to anyone... this was nearly two weeks ago, so im just wondering should i try contact her????? i dont think she will contact me, but i realy wanna take her up on her saying she would sleep with me because "your realy hot and if u wanned to i wouldnt say no" sounds to me asif she is interested in me... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2012): Women love to say you need to respect them more, but half the time they are fucking guys just as disrespectful as you are being. What does that tell you?
Contrary to what women say it is not really the disrespect that turns them off. Its being disrespectful in the wrong way they don't like. You need to stop coming across as desperate for sex with anyone and start coming across as very interested in sex with a certain girl.
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reader, missmatador +, writes (23 June 2012):
 Dear Anon,
You need to have more respect for women. You don't go marching up to a girl saying "I heard you want to have sex with me...care to make good on that?" Regardless of what you heard from whom ever you heard it from, it makes you seem desperate, it makes you seem masoginistic and it makes you seem like a sleaze.
It could be that she came to her senses and decided that portraying herself as that type of person was not the best way to get attention and that she is embarrassed.
If you're not going to change your approach towards casual gossip or women then I would say you should get used to the company of your right hand.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (23 June 2012):
 Let it go. Seems to me that she is either all talk, no action or not really interested in sleeping with a guy who only wants sex.
And I agree with Aiden, have a little more respect for girls around you. They are more then a hole in the mattress.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (23 June 2012):
Let it go! She’s obviously changed her mind, or is feeling uncomfortable about the whole thing. She probably realised that just having casual sex with some-one isn’t a good idea. She should have a little more self-respect than to agree to sex straight away in future, and you should have more respect for women. Learn from this!
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2012): To me if I was planning to meet a guy to fuck, and he told me to message him before coming over, i would think that he had a girlfriend or was hiding me from someone, so I wouldn't be going near him or contacting him either. Mind you I wouldn't be promising to fuck him either. You may want to take her up on the "offer", but she hadn't told you, she told your friend. I don't think she is interested anymore. Maybe she told your friend just to get him to go away. I wouldn't contact her again, just accept that it's not going to happen.
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