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writes:My boyfriend of 3 years has just gone to a holiday destination for a week with the lads. I trust him completely and I know he loves me. I'm very anxious and nervous though what he may get up to but not paranoid as obviously there are a lot of half naked girls that are just there for one thing. And it is well know for that on the other side too. I just want to know should he have wanted to go to a holiday place like this knowing this about the place and the neurotic things that people get up to? Reply to this Question
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (23 June 2012):
Why would he have wanted to go to this particular holiday destination? Simple: he wanted a holiday with his friends, and that’s where they chose. Just because the opportunity to cheat might present itself, it doesn’t mean he’s going to cheat. You can still have fun at these places whilst remaining faithful. If you’ve no other grounds to be suspicious apart from the fact that he’s holidaying somewhere that has a bad reputation, you should stop worrying.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (23 June 2012):
 Hi
If you trust him then stop worrying and enjoy yourself,keep busy. You should have booked a girls holiday for the same week!
So many people worry when their partner goes away alone, its a week, 7 days, thats all.Hes not going to throw away 3yrs and the girl he loves is he? Hes just having a laugh, a break with his mates
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (23 June 2012):
 If you trust him completely then why are you anxious and nervous? Complete trust should mean you send him off with a kiss and never give it a second thought about what he might get up to.
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